A very long time ago my dad made the statement, "you know you're getting old when your kids start getting old!" I think it was when I was about the age my son turns today! (He's the one on the far right of the pic)
Now, all these years later --- I realize even more how right my dad was! :)
Today, at precisely 1:15pm my son will turn 38 years old!
No matter how old I grow, I will always remember that day as if it was yesterday.
I was 20 years old. He was supposed to be due on April 8th. All during my pregnancy I had been trying to tell the doctors how very large babies run in my family. I weighed 10 pounds and my 3 younger brothers weighed in more and more till one topped out at 12 pounds 1 ounce ---- yes ---- at newborn weight!!!!
No doctors would believe me --- until that day! As I labored and labored with not much progress they finally decided it was time to do a Csection. But just as the prep started the monitor attached to Ryan showed his heart completely stop. No time for surgery and off to the delivery room we went. I had no idea what was really happening and only remember sheer terror going through my mind.
It took 4 doctors and 3 nurses to "deliver" him -- with the main doctor shouting about how he'd never seen a baby this big (a real help to my terror)!!!!!
I only caught a glimpse of Ryan as they hurried him to an incubator -- he was as blue as the sky. He spent a few hours there. When everyone was assured he was fine they brought him to me. He was beautiful beyond words -- just a couple of marks along his forehead from the forceps. And yes -- he was big --- 10 pounds 6 ounces and nearly 22 inches long!
And now ---- he is 38 years old --- quite a few inches over 6 feet tall and still as beautiful and still as perfect as that day!
Ryan --- I love you with all my heart and am so proud of the amazing man you have become!!!!
God truly blessed me that day --- and every day since then.
Hope you have a wonderful birthday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Mom and Monty
"We are doers of the Word of God and are blessed in our deeds. We are happy in those things which we do because we are doers of the Word of God." James 1:22
About Me
- Susan and Monty Scales
- We've spent years helping families rebuild their lives and homes after natural disasters. Those adventures have taken us to Mississippi, Louisiana, Indiana and Texas. God is now teaching me there are numerous definitions of "disaster." This new adventure of driving a school bus is taking me into a whole new world of "rebuilding." Stay tuned and see the hand of God in action! Jesus really does "love the little children; red, yellow, black and white . . ."
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I know how this feels...my oldest recently turned 29 and I'm thinking, "Hey wait; wasn't I 29 just a few years ago?!" And we thought it was just their CHILDHOOD that goes to fast!
Happy birthday to your big boy! :)
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